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		<title>One month before heartbreak</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jan 2011 09:33:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Martyn Sibley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear all elected officials and decision makers (at a national and local level) In light of the recent cuts to government spending, we (Martyn Sibley of London and Richard Currie of Manchester) are writing to convey our deep concern at the affects they will have on the disabled people of the UK. We are only [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear all elected officials and decision makers (at a national and local level)</p>
<p>In light of the recent cuts to government spending, we (Martyn Sibley  of London and Richard Currie of Manchester) are writing to convey our  deep concern at the affects they will have on the disabled people of the  UK. We are only 2 of 10 million disabled people in Britain, but our  views are by no means unique. This letter forms our contribution to a  large online campaign – 1 month before heartbreak. Many people are  blogging today to urge your good selves to consider aspects of the  Disability Living Allowance and general disability reforms, and how they  will truly work in the ‘real world’.</p>
<p>The DLA provides vital financial assistance for the extra costs  incurred as a result of being disabled. The consultation is looking at  tougher assessment criteria (to reduce the number of claimants) and even  withdrawing the vital transport component of the allowance. It ends on  14<sup>th</sup> February 2011. Furthermore there are discussions to  disband the Independent Living Fund, assisting disabled people to live  full, self directed lives. Please don’t break anyone’s heart on  Valentines day. Or for that matter, ever!</p>
<p>We would like to start by acknowledging  the social, legal, economic,  political and technological improvements of the past 50 years . With  the social model of disability being enforced through laws and motions  such as the Disability Discrimination Act and the UN convention ,  disabled people have seen vast improvements in societal inclusion. We  both have had happy childhoods, met good friends, accessed our education  system to Masters level and have ambitions the same as anyone. We  personally strive for full independence using our electric wheelchairs,  accessing social care provisions and using DLA for the extra costs we  incur as disabled people.</p>
<p>As a positive recognition of the coalition government, we are glad  you see the merits of Personalisation. The key here is that it may not  be for everyone. With such a varying scale of impairments in the  disability world, person centred plans are vital. Where possible, people  should direct their own provision of services, giving them the  flexibility, choice and control they deserve. When certain tasks and  responsibilities are simply too much, this must be recognised and solved  innovatively with brokerages and other support services. Really the  crux of Personalisation is to improve disabled people’s lives, not to  cut costs and corners. Please ensure there is enough money in the  coffers. It is difficult to employ a PA to carry out care-work 24/7  under the minimum wage. Furthermore without the foundations of care in  our lives how can we work, be financially sustainable, socially engage  and be happy and healthy?</p>
<p>Unfortunately, even in 2011, this all has not resulted in full  inclusion. Physically there are many buildings, transport links and  leisure activities that are not accessible. Attitudinally many people  still have cautious and incorrect views on disability. It is widely  known bus and taxi drivers get agitated because a wheelchair user  requires a ramp. Employers often feel concerned of disabled peoples’  ability to carry out a job, instead of assessing them on actual merit.  We already need to improve a lot of things despite the progress made. So  why make such regressive policy decisions?</p>
<p>With disabled people finding access to qualifications more difficult,  trying to change attitudes and access to jobs in an already very  difficult labour market, and having less disposable income because of  the many extra costs incurred (more expensive travel methods, purchasing  and repairs to necessary equipment, central heating costs, extra rent  to provide space for PAs…), why slash DLA?</p>
<p>We know there are people claiming it who should not. We totally agree  this should be stopped too. However is it the core reason our country  is in debt? No. Is it fair that while stopping the fraudsters, people  who really do need DLA are worried if they will keep it, worried how  they will be assessed (we for one are not attempting to run on any  machine to fall over and prove our disability), and others may not even  bother applying when they ought to? No.</p>
<p>Furthermore, if you are to disband the Independent Living Fund,  supporting 21,000 disabled people with their care needs, consider this.  If local councils struggle to financially support 50% of our care now,  how will they fill the void left from the ILF, when their overall  budgets are being slashed as we write this?</p>
<p>The point is with so much positivity to celebrate, but with so much  more to improve, why make decisions that will entrench disabled people  back into poverty and exclusion? We say:</p>
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<li>Invest in disabled people with Personalisation social care, but for  the right reasons. Listen to the challenges disabled people face, work  with us to find solutions and be willing to fund this properly. In the  long run, the spending and investment will lead to disabled people with  better education, better skills for the workplace, better chance of  being given employment (encourage remote working to become the norm when  appropriate) and the means to live happy and fulfilled lives</li>
<li>Acknowledge that DLA assists with the huge additional costs of being  disabled – care and mobility. Stop anyone from claiming falsely, but in  a way that doesn’t scare monger disabled people and doesn’t portray an  image of lazy, slacking scroungers. Work with disabled people on the  assessment methods and don’t break our hearts!</li>
<li>Keep the ILF. Or at least find a plan to fill its void. One that  will be effective. Do not cause unnecessary stress to those who rightly  use it and will always require social care funding</li>
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<p>Feel free to send any responses, thoughts or questions to <a href="mailto:martynsibley@hotmail.com">martynsibley@hotmail.com</a> and lets work together. The deficit can be cut and disabled people can  be supported to live inclusively. They are not mutually exclusive  occurrences.</p>
<p>Kindest regards.</p>
<p>Martyn and Richard</p>
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<p><a href="http://thebrokenofbritain.blogspot.com/2011/01/more-one-month-before-heartbreak.html">http://thebrokenofbritain.blogspot.com/2011/01/more-one-month-before-heartbreak.html</a></p>
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		<title>Floriddddddaaa!! (more thoughts on accessible travel)</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Oct 2010 09:36:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Srinivas Madipalli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I write this after returning from the second trip of my travels during my time off work. This was a family holiday to Orlando, Florida to visit more family and to allow my father to attend his college reunion which was being held at the hotel we were staying at. I love going to the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I write this after returning from the second trip of my travels during my time off work. This was a family holiday to Orlando, Florida to visit more family and to allow my father to attend his college reunion which was being held at the hotel we were staying at.</p>
<p>I love going to the US. Everything always seems so straightforward and simple when it comes to all things “disability related”.  I have been to the US many times before and I find people over there just seem to “get it” when it comes to disability. By this I mean staff at airports know exactly what to do, finding wheelchair accessible cars or taxis is easy, hotel staff know exactly what a wheelchair accessible room is and wheelchair access is the routine norm rather than the exception, and I could go on with many more examples.</p>
<p>Orlando was great. It’s a place that brings out the kid in me that never quite grew up (and probably never will). I loved the beautiful weather, the pristine beaches, the ample quantity of food portions and the unashamed cheesiness of the enormous theme parks. I was even able to go on some of the rides in the theme parks (albeit the less cool and scary rides!), which were adapted to allow a wheelchair to drive right onto the ride.</p>
<p>The only little hiccup was on the first day, when I realised that a UK wheelchair charger requiring 220V supply does not work in the US where voltage supply is 110V. Even though I had been to the US before, previously I had always rented powered wheelchairs and hoists locally. This time however, I brought my own ‘Molift Smart’ portable hoist and Ottobock ‘A200’ collapsible powered wheelchair.  However, this being America, there existed a solution, and we found an electrical store which sold a step up transformer. Problem solved! Panic over! Holiday resumed!</p>
<p>Going to a country where accessibility is the norm rather than exception is a great experience. I did wonder why this was though. Some tell me that this is due to the pervasive and onerous nature of the Americans with Disabilities Act (as I write this post, I am yet to have read  the Act in any detail so can’t really say whether I agree with this or not), others tell me Americans in general are more willing to stand up (excuse the pun) for their rights and hence service providers have to ensure that any service they provide to a person who happens to have a disability is up to scratch. I am not sure what the answer is, and if there is an answer, it is probably due to a multitude of reasons. But what is interesting and somewhat ironic, is that in a country where state intervention and legislation with respect to social issues, which may place further obligations on the citizen or on a business are generally frowned upon (see Obama’s struggle with healthcare policy for a good example of such recalcitrance), the US in my opinion is far more accommodating for the disabled traveller than pretty much any part of “social” Europe. See my previous blog post on a trip to Brussels for a good comparison.</p>
<p>By writing this article, I have probably inflicted upon myself the bloggers equivalent of the “commentator’s curse” whereby next time I travel to the US it will be an utter wheelchair inaccessible disaster! Let’s hope not though as I am planning to go to California in November!!</p>
<p>The next leg of my travels is a two week cruise around the Mediterranean stopping off at various places in Spain and Italy, and no doubt will have some thoughts to share when I get back.</p>
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		<title>My Priorities &#8211; now I&#8217;m 27!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Sep 2010 14:47:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Martyn Sibley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I thought I had better write a blog tonight before the birthday celebrations kick off this weekend. 27 tomorrow and I have felt both 17 and 37 through parts of the past year, guess it averages out hey. Its been a mega year: I was pretty unwell for the first prolonged time of my working [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I thought I had better write a blog tonight before the birthday celebrations kick off this weekend. 27 tomorrow and I have felt both 17 and 37 through parts of the past year, guess it averages out hey. Its been a mega year:</p>
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<li>I was pretty unwell for the first prolonged time of my working life in the winter months</li>
<li>The car was an absolute nightmare throughout winter too</li>
<li>I picked myself up with an amazing trip to Mexico – dolphins and scuba diving</li>
<li>I started a new job at Scope straight after</li>
<li>I setup my first ever disability event (‘Sunnier Days’ starring Natasha Wood and Sophie Morgan)</li>
<li>I also carried out some consultancy projects around Personalisation and social media</li>
<li>Had articles published on these subjects in Disability Now</li>
<li>Been co-opted on the committee for Tottenham Hotspurs disabled supporters</li>
<li>Co-ran a workshop on disability tips/hints at the JTSMA conference</li>
<li>Had some great times with family and friends – clubbing, Bournemouth, Stratford etc</li>
<li>Flew a bloody plane and recorded a song (coming soon)</li>
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<p>More recently I have been both exhausted and unwell. I know now I have to watch how much I do in life at any one time. We all live and learn. I’d still say no regrets as the push I have had the past year means I can continue these great things but only when I have it in the tank. Its definitely been worth it.</p>
<p>The past week my ex girlfriend, but definite life-long friend Lena has been over. I was a little frustrated I had so little energy and the cold was bad that I couldn’t be as sociable as normal. However its been a great week catching up nonetheless. We had a real good chin wag and managed a great evening on the Southbank before cruising around the London sights in the car afterwards to some tunes last night.</p>
<p>Also the past couple of days I have been very aware of my concerns about being ill so early in the year, with winter coming and my ability to carry on normal life if the colds keep coming. The problem is I enter a vicious circle of getting ill, worrying about how bad it will be and if I can work ok, that it doesn’t improve as quick. Having had a chat with work and creating a strategy for a) preventing my getting run down and b) what to do if I am ill, I am feeling so much more positive.</p>
<p>This led onto the first clear thinking I have had on life for a long while. People who know me understand I don’t let my disability stop me, I hate doing things ‘differently’ and I am a sociable and ambitious fellow. Having calmed myself around health and working with the coming colder months, I came to the following conclusion of my priorities:</p>
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<li>First is my health. I plan to take Echinacea, vitamins and most importantly eat better. Also to not overdo anything and listen to my body when it says chill. Looking forward to swimming starting up again after schools holidays.</li>
<li>Second is my job. I love working at Scope and obviously it provides me with the means to be independent. Now I can relax about health worries and totally enjoy my role.</li>
<li>Third is social life. While I cant overdo it I reckon I need a night a week and something on the weekend to enjoy. I plan to book some concerts I have spotted (with birthday money), read books more, just chill in a coffee bar sometimes and still manage a good booze up with mates too. Furthermore spurs are in the champions league too J</li>
<li>Last but not least is extra stuff. I love blogging, supporting disability charities, writing articles, advising the Tottenham Disabled Supporters Association, consulting on social media and personalisation. These will definitely not stop. I am simply going to space out these projects and run them as a marathon and not a sprint (as I maybe have done this summer).</li>
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<p>So I will be interested to see how much I stuck to this new insight and plan. Lets have a look at 28, or even New Years Eve. Either way it feels great to see the world from a simpler, workable and happy perspective. I do still feel a little tired and under par but I think it will pass soon.</p>
<p>All that is left is to get to work tomorrow, enjoy my team birthday lunch at Wagamama and then enjoy mine and Shashika’s joint birthday bash in Angel. Looks like well over 50 Scope people are attending. Could get messy. Then I am back to mums Saturday for a potential barbecue and St.Ives massive get together in town. Dad then suggested Sunday pub lunch to see him and get pressies. Then I have Monday off for annual leave and a nice chill, plus to spend some of my bday money. Finally I am off to Wales Tuesday/Wednesday before a meeting with Tottenham Hotspurs for work on Thursday. Happy times.  I will check in again in the meantime I am sure. Cheers, Martyn.</p>
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		<title>My disability is not the problem</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Aug 2010 08:56:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Martyn Sibley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is an article I have written for an international medical journal. It acts as a reminder of why I keep this website flowing. It also shows the amazing support the JTSMA and Scope have given me and others. Furthermore being quite sensitive I do like a reminisce! Hope you like it. Having read the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is an article I have written for an international medical journal. It acts as a reminder of why I keep this website flowing. It also shows the amazing support the JTSMA and Scope have given me and others. Furthermore being quite sensitive I do like a reminisce! Hope you like it.</p>
<p>Having read the article written by Patrick Moeschen I was inspired to contribute to the social model discussion and how this perspective also enhanced my story. My name is Martyn Sibley, I have type 2 Spinal Muscular Atrophy (SMA), I live in London and I am now 26 years old. Like Patrick, my upbringing was ‘normal’ and very much a can-do approach. Having used a wheelchair since 3 years old, requiring support for transferring from my bed to the chair etc, assistance with personal care, cooking, turning at night and other daily chores this is not always an easy scenario. I went to mainstream school, enjoyed family holidays with my mum, dad and sister (who is unaffected), socialised with friends and overall enjoyed a great childhood.</p>
<p>Fast forward on and I managed to gain good school and college results. Having been so integrated and encouraged at school is the reason the following was possible. Firstly I got into university and took my first steps (so to speak) towards independent living. With a team of 4 carers in a city called Coventry (in the midlands, UK) my life took a massive leap. I met many amazing people from around the world, broadened my horizons and learnt the art of drinking while staying up very late. I met many beautiful girls and enjoyed 2 long term relationships. Furthermore I gained a 2:1 in Economics followed by a Masters degree in Marketing. I managed to learn to drive in these years and took a trip of a lifetime to Australia via Singapore which was extraordinary.</p>
<p>Having laid these foundations for myself I left university, worked for one year at a national disability charity called Scope from my little home town, before realising I needed more. I managed to secure a similar job but in their headquarters in London. The plans took shape and not before long I was moving into my 2 bedroom flat, with a personally employed team of carers and the world at my fingertips. Soon after I received promotion into the fundraising team. This allowed me to use my degree subjects in a job that was so worthy and supportive of disabled people. Prior to this I had dreamed of London but with the dog-eat-dog lifestyle of the ‘City’, money and pressure. I soon realised I needed job fulfilment, not just the big pay cheque and I realised my body wouldn’t sustain such hours long term.</p>
<p>Around this point I was introduced to the social model of disability by Scope. It has been liberating to not see my disability as the problem, but instead a blip in the structure of society. By seeing 3 types of barriers; physical, attitudinal and organisational things fall into place. When a building has steps I am disabled, when there are ramps I am not. When people assume I am less intelligent because I use a wheelchair I am disabled, when they get to know me I am not. When employers assume my physical limitations mean I cannot work I am disabled, when they choose the best person for the job I am not.</p>
<p>I then carried out some talks to the youth group of the Jennifer Trust for Spinal Muscular Atrophy (JTSMA – charity for people with my disability). The buzz I got from lighting a fire in these kids showing despite their disability anything and everything was possible – I was living proof. I decided I wanted to do this to a larger audience and setup a blog. This was when <a href="http://www.martynsibley.com/">www.martynsibley.com</a> was born! Through daily updates on my activities and more political articles, the use of photos, videos, Twitter and Facebook I now reach nearly 1000 people. Some are disabled looking for inspiration, information or just someone to relate to. Others are not disabled and hopefully having their attitude of disability realigned with reality, or possibly to just look at the crazy life I lead.</p>
<p>Recently I have delivered workshops on practical tips and advice on disability, flown a plane, recorded a song and agreed to appear in the fashion show <a href="http://www.disabledandsexy.co.uk/">www.disabledandsexy.co.uk</a> for the JTSMA. The sky really is the limit as long as I am working, sharing my experiences and always smiling. Whatever happens I believe the world for disabled people has sunnier days ahead.</p>
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		<title>Personalisation &#8211; a happy ever after story</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 09:57:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Martyn Sibley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Whether you are a disabled person, a family or friend of a disabled person or employed within the social care world, the word ‘personalisation’ has probably started to enter your vocabulary. For those not fortunate enough to have even brushed past this concept here is a story to assist you. Once upon a time, disabled [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whether you are a disabled person, a family or friend of a disabled person or employed within the social care world, the word ‘personalisation’ has probably started to enter your vocabulary. For those not fortunate enough to have even brushed past this concept here is a story to assist you.</p>
<p>Once upon a time, disabled people lived in a small part of town known as medical model ville. With efforts to cure or keep disabled people away from society, one could say it wasn’t the best part of town. Gradually over time disabled activists and campaigners have spread the good word of social model ville. Here, ramps were invented, friendships forged and careers blossomed. Now, this move isn’t quite the end of our story because while social model ville offered improvement – not everyone could truly reach this place. The key to a disabled person living a fulfilled life is by having choice and control. If you cannot get out of bed when desired, how can you access that building, meet the love of your life or get that promotion. Progress was made towards the land far away, but storms would continue to trouble this journey.</p>
<p>It is seen more recently that the destination of ‘happy ever after’ can be reached through updating our systems and processes. In the past, social care was delivered by Government Local Authorities, who assessed a disabled person for their needs. They then commissioned what service was required to satisfy that need, as well as when it would take place and by whom. Thankfully this is now being recognised as an inefficient use of the lands resources. It is all good seeing a problem but in this land a solution is required too.</p>
<p>Out of nowhere a knight on a white horse appears on the horizon. Their name is ‘personalisation’ and their aim is take all the rules that have existed and turn them upside down. The knight is not a threat to other knights with other agendas; Personalisation knows his groundbreaking views will allow the beautiful landscape and opportunities that exist to be enjoyed by everyone. So what is this dude on the horse really up to?</p>
<p>By letting the rulers of the land, known as the Government, to assess the person and hold the budgets, we begin as we were before. However instead of directing which of the merchants in the land (social care providers) should support disabled people, the money is given direct. allowing disabled people to make their own decisions. Simple yet effective! What the shining knight needs to explain very clearly and articulately is what this means for (the newly beheld) ‘consumers’ of the land and indeed the merchants too.</p>
<p>Firstly there are responsibilities and rules as a consumer. Despite the benefits of entering the land of purchasing power, in the district of empowerment, there are still dangers. When using direct payments, or being on an individual budget one essentially becomes an employer. The tools required to take this journey will be around market research, legal contracts, human resources, time management, diplomacy, tax returns and other financial skills. As more dare to take this route, these tools are vital to breeze through this neck of the woods.</p>
<p>Lastly for the merchants, who were established to fill gaps in the private market, they are approaching a twisting, turning, winding and unknown journey too. They used to fill a generic need in bulk and were able to rely on the rulers for regular income and finance. Moving forward they also need a new set of tools including – market research, marketing and communications, customer service and retention, adding value, new financing mechanics and the key skill is “innovation”.</p>
<p>If the newly appointed consumers and the established merchants can meander through this tricky course which has been carved out by the brave knight, the view will be astounding for all. The rest of the land can and should do many things to assist the journey. However it is the demand and supply of the personalisation agenda that needs to progress resulting in a happy ever after story.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Dec 2009 12:27:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Martyn Sibley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I decided to do a typical style of update in terms of daily happenings but in an overarching manner. It has been known the car and my health have been under par for a while. The update of the moment is I am being admitted to the respiratory unit in hospital tomorrow to x-ray my [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I decided to do a typical style of update in terms of daily happenings but in an overarching manner. It has been known the car and my health have been under par for a while. The update of the moment is I am being admitted to the respiratory unit in hospital tomorrow to x-ray my bad lung and run some tests to see why I am still not clearing the infection. I am ok in myself but a little fed up with this and just want to be better, fingers crossed we get things moving tomorrow.</p>
<p>The broader area I want to discuss is easier with the back story. Those who have read my blogs and know me personally will know 98% of the time I enjoy working full time at Scope, meet a friend or two of a week evening, like a dance in a club at a weekend as well as watching Tottenham and taking in the odd music concert and then of course travelling when I can. So understandably I am feeling frustrated at being stuck in.</p>
<p>I am even more annoyed as this goes back to 26<sup>th</sup> October with my infamous sleep study. I left the study with the ok and come back in a year comment, but with antibiotics due to a slight chest infection. I was then off work for 2 weeks which is the longest time I have ever had off in my working life but a must in the situation. I have explained before how for me a normal cold goes on my chest, my cough is weaker due to the SMA and the mucus sits there and becomes infected. Having recovered and gone back to work for 2 weeks I caught a second cold and last Wednesday it went south. So I am on yet more antibiotics and struggling to shift this time.</p>
<p>I remain confident it will be ok but as always I have been thinking deeper on this and want to share the following. Nearly 5 years ago I had the usual scenario but it was the worst I have known and turned into pneumonia. It was the first time I was aware of my mortality and not to overdramatise &#8211; I was scared and it was touch and go. On returning to uni afterwards I had news one of my best friends who had SMA passed away from pneumonia. We were both in Coventry living in next door flats and had also attended the same school on the same bus. It knocked me sideways for multiple layered reasons. Big shout out to Paul! <img src='http://www.prioritytrust.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I have come to the realisation that I am right to do all the things I do and grab life, but this bad early start to winter has shown me that I (as with everyone) must know my limits. Rather than stress about missing work (which I have been) and be totally frustrated I am stuck in not doing the things I love, I know I have to accept my impairment is limiting me right now. In doing so I hope it will enable me to get better quicker.</p>
<p>I know from talking to other disabled people there is such a will to be ‘normal’ but sometimes to the detriment of yourself. I feel the point of this blog is to say to disabled people that do not dwell on your impairment, get out there and do it but when it takes a hold and limits you listen to your body and take the steps necessary to get back to full fitness.</p>
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		<title>My aspirations; Aiming high!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Dec 2009 12:24:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Martyn Sibley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Having been off for 2 weeks with a nasty chest infection, a broken car and generally a bit stressed I am back at work and back on the road. I met with Andy of Andy’s Kars at his garage in Bar Hill on Saturday. He has been working on my vans adaptations in the positive [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Having been off for 2 weeks with a nasty chest infection, a broken car and generally a bit stressed I am back at work and back on the road.</p>
<p>I met with Andy of Andy’s Kars at his garage in Bar Hill on Saturday. He has been working on my vans adaptations in the positive sense through the past weeks of trauma. Not only has he sorted my car after the ongoing problems he is an amazing guy generally. While he runs a garage he also does a lot more. In working with disadvantaged kids he helps them to take responsibility for overcoming their ‘challenges’ as he calls them. While it was amazing to meet Andy and see the great work he does in training these kids to become mechanics, and improve so much more themselves, he said one broader thing around the inspirational talks he gives that has resonated so much I want to blog on this subject. I also met with a director of a disability charity called HAFAD last night who made very similar comments around this. More to come on Kamran and his work soon.</p>
<p>In chatting around my aspirations during a general catch up they both struck on somewhat of a contradiction I and many other disabled people have. Personally I see myself as an outgoing, confident person. I love socialising with good people and have aspirations to one day manage a team of like minded people towards a common goal that will leave a small legacy when I’m gone. Sounds a bit cliché but I want to harness business with disability for a better outcome for all involved. Details are hazy at present but I am thinking all the while what this may actually play out as.</p>
<p>The contradiction is I am not always confident in my ability to achieve something significant and doubt not only myself but how others see me. I have discussed the journey I take people on from meeting and them losing stereotypes, but I think professionally or aspirationally it’s another matter. Having gone to uni, travelled and living independently I sometimes feel that my ambition is too much, or not necessary, and I should stick to being content where I am. It clearly is a balance to strike, but overall it is a contradiction. Would a non-disabled person at 26 with a Masters degree reduce their hopes and dreams so starkly? No, because they can progress with less barriers, but it’s also expected and the norm to move on.</p>
<p>I’ve realised now that while the social model is so important – society needs to make the physical environment accessible and have more open attitudes – there is a lot of need for disabled people to be strong in themselves. “Social conditioning” is when you behave the way that people expect you to. It’s all too easy to fall into this trap. Every disabled person needs to know themselves, their limits and challenges but also to aim high. Everyone can achieve what they set out to; it just takes some planning, patience and time.</p>
<p>For me having felt like such a small fish in a big pond in London, feeling vulnerable with contentious care decisions and other worries I have decided to wipe a clean slate. I’m not going to move at the speed of light but I am going to think on with my dreams in a manageable/attainable way. I am going to be that confident, sociable ambitious person I know I am and enjoy the ride, not question myself as much as I readily have of late.</p>
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		<title>The wider benefits of inclusion</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 10:45:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Martyn Sibley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Having read around the Fiona Pilkington case further I am still sticking to my point that less is sometimes more. Without enough knowledge on the legal aspects I would hate to comment in a blaze of glory I would regret later. I will say that any news that highlights crimes against someone due to disability [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Having read around the Fiona Pilkington case further I am still sticking to my point that less is sometimes more. Without enough knowledge on the legal aspects I would hate to comment in a blaze of glory I would regret later. I will say that any news that highlights crimes against someone due to disability has to be a positive move, even if the solutions are more around general law enforcing practices.</p>
<p>Reading about Fiona and her family’s isolation and exclusion from society got me thinking more on the subject of inclusivity. I think I have always been quite outspoken that my upbringing was more inclusive. However there have been, still are and always will be times when I feel this sense of difference. For me they have often come with change. Starting primary and secondary school, university and moving to London were all massive changes with things to consider that most would never imagine – access, personal care and of course new people.</p>
<p>I can chart the changes of attitude in a person I meet, from assuming I may not have any sense or speech, being patronising, to apprehension of what to say in not offending me and finally “I don’t see you as disabled”! It’s a necessary must to walk people through this but a tad tedious sometimes, especially when it’s a more superficial meeting in say a club and there is not the time for such a journey.</p>
<p>Once the change has occurred and things settled down I gain more confidence knowing my surroundings. I am then more apt at grabbing life and pushing onwards to achieve in all senses compared to non-disabled people too. It’s about understanding yourself, understanding others and being positive and pragmatic to remove the barriers placed in your way.</p>
<p>The real problem of exclusion is when you have limited access, limited/no personal care and are unable to meet and bond with new people always. Despite every effort to integrate and achieve with the most sociable, intelligent being – it is simply impossible. Take a very close friend of mine. Since moving into a new city it took them months to get a flat, they are still not receiving enough care and hence have less chances to be out and about and embrace what should be a new time after uni, meeting many new friends and having new experiences. The knock on effect is periods of depression and questioning things that were once obvious. The horror of this from a social care perspective is the “savings” made, are lost in other ways with reduced physical health levels and mental health implications.</p>
<p>The result of what I am saying here is social exclusion can be overcome by a long term strategy. Instead of cutting costs on access and personal care in the short term, we are losing more through physical and mental health care costs, have a loss of economic input and tax revenue, while overall happiness and welfare plummets. The answer is to provide these basic factors so people can flourish into who they want to be. Society benefits as a whole and the public will see disabled people more included and easier to chat with in an instant, like they would with anyone and everybody else.</p>
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